So, I've decided to muse some more about my continuing series on the aspects of strapon play. I think in my past entries I had mentioned how different cultures approach it. Here in the US (but definitely not limited to just us yanks), it seems that many websites focus on hard, mean, strapon play. Websites like ClubDom.com seem to almost exclusively show this style of strapon action.
And as always, there is nothing wrong with that, though it certainly isn't for everyone.
There are a few different ways to make strapon play meaner than it has to be, and there are even ways that somelittle spikes on it, so that when they plunge "balls deep" the sub is sure to know it.
Even without bondage, are definitely some positions which make taking a strapon all the harder. I've seen subs bent over so their ass is completely in the air, and their own cock is in their face. The ladies of meangirlsclub.com seem to particularly enjoy putting men in this position. With the ladies often jerking them off so that they shoot into their own face. For me, that's another case of to each their own. Whatever blows your dress up, right?
Lastly, is a more subtle option. Make the sub get himself off first. All of us guys are much less willing to submit to something after the throbbing desire is gone. But be sure to have him already restricted in some kind of way first, otherwise he might try to run off. Of course, you could just have him locked in chastity for the experience... but that's another blog entry for another day.