Til the giggling started.
Oh, I do miss her sometimes.
I've heard more and more women use that expression over the years, and as I promised this entry in a slow to publish series, its time for me to discuss the act of strap-sucking.
Now, I'm not experienced at it. And frankly, its not my thing. I've done it once, a lovely Mistress, Xia Vox - who is now retired, insisted. It was a very interesting session and experience overall, and I'm grateful for it. I do wish I had not been so pressed time wise during that trip, and I have long regretted running off so soon after the session ended.
her pictures, I just *had* to session with her. And though she didn't usually session with men she didn't know before, my sincerity (and I think a nice note on my behalf from another Mistress she knew) got me in the door to see her. One thing though, she made it clear that she was going to make me suck her strap-on. It was something I had never done, and she was pretty rough about it. Not nearly as rough as some of the videos I've seen, and she wasn't shoving some massive dildo down my throat, but I definitely felt it. And I think it was the first time I ever felt sore in the back of my mouth in my life - aside from a good cold that is.
So, in the realm of fantasy, I do get it. There's a place for it, and I appreciate why people enjoy it. The old kinky story, where the Mistress says, "You better slobber on it good, that's the lube you get!" Well, I hope that's just the stuff of fantasy. I suspect if things are already pre-lubed back there and prepared, well maybe, but geez... I donno, maybe I'm a lube junkie. Either way, I can't fathom a bit of spit being enough. Oy! Seriously, this is a tender area!
gag on it.
Lastly, there is obviously a whole gender play aspect that is pretty common for some strap-on suckers. I know I've read more than a few remarks about how much the lipstick smeared on the strap-on holds an appeal, on both sides.
But ultimately, strap-on sucking a perfect example of using our biggest sexual organ in kinky play, and by that, I mean the mind. No one is physically receiving any stimulation from the act, its purely psychological - though I guess that depends if it's feeldoe, then maybe it's different, but generally, this is about the role, the mindset, the control... the act of domination and submission.
When the receiver is on its knees this involves forcing the dildo to take a rather sharp downward angle. This angle and the movement of the appendage as it moves in and out of the the receiver's throat (which is necessary for breathing) can also be very stimulating for the dildo wearer."
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