That is assuming you are a smoking fetishist purist, and not into what seems to be the BDSM idea of smoking fetishism which includes lots of blowing smoke in faces, ashing in mouths, spitting on people and of course, burning.
I don't know how it seems to always come to that noe. Well not always, but 99% of the time. Why can't FemDom clips just show a dominant woman who enjoys smoking during a scene? Its such a rarity. And for me, all that other stuff is so completely NOT IT, not it at all.
If you don't want to read about the topic, skip it. If you don't "get" the smoking fetish, you don't have to comment. If you want to understand it better, feel free to read onward.
/rantmodeoff
6 comments:
Aarkey,
You might be interested to know that i recently had to invest in a Zippo. Those damned bics couldn't light Mistress's cigarettes outside if there was even a bit of wind.
The Zippo has been a very good investment because She looks soooooo damned sexy when She smokes. :)
That is all.
Respectfully,
slave2MN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=_4HfrvNP9kU
Hey - first of all, thanks for the mention of my blogs and the link - I appreciate it! Secondly, I couldn't agree more about your comment about "where it ends up".
I love watching women smoke (obviously). I love photographing them. I am turned on as hell when my wife smokes during sex. I even get into some kink, like latex, strap ons, etc. But who wants to have someone use your mouth as an ashtray, or get into painful situations? It does always seem to just go "too far" in that direction (in pornography). And why does pegging always end up being things like "men in pain"? I don't want to be in pain, I want to have fun... anyway - just my .02 cents.
Tony
Hi Aarkey:
I am not personally a smoking fetishist but I think I get at least part of the attraction. Cigarettes are a prop; a symbolic icon that imply the smoker is a rebel and a bad girl. Some of my fetishes; stiletto heels, long black gloves, tall black leather boots convey a very similar vibe. It is worth noting that cigarettes make very effective instruments of torture and are therefore dangerous not just for the person smoking them. They also look great in long cigarette holders especially when the smoker is wearing the formerly mentioned long black leather gloves. The whole look just screams....VAMP!!!!
Slave2MN: If you really want to impress, look into a butane lighter. Most cigar shops have them for $20-30 and to me, they're just sexy as hell. There's definitely something classic about the zippo, but the smell of it just says "biker dude" to me. But to each their own, right? :)
Ayesha: Thanks for the clip, and while that is not my cup o tea, but there's lots of guys who find a cigar smoking woman to be hotter than the sun.
TonyHud: Glad to support another smoking fetishist and your work. To each their own, I like to say. I do find it disappointing that so much of the content seems to find a rut - and that's definitely not unique to kink by any means. Everything always seems to be just another remake, creativity and variety must be too scary.
HMP: Definitely good on all points. Though 99% of the time I don't find holder's sexy. Mostly because its so rare that I'm not conditioned to it, but maybe its in part due to the fact that I love seeing lipstick on the filter.
The vamp, the bad girl rebel, the debutante, the executive, the artist, the closet good girl who rebels by being a smoker... oh, there's lot of different kind of seductive smokers out there ;)
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