Strapon Styles : Overview

For a while now I've wanted to do some write ups about different styles of play. And one that has a lot of variety to it is strap-on play. Strap-on play isn't for everyone. Many pro-dommes don't do it. For a slew of reasons: legal ones, cleanliness ones, and intimacy are the biggest three.

Whatever the reasons, it's important to respect that.

Even in a pro setting, no means no. I've seen so many selfish "subs" out there try to pressure a pro into doing something, or maligning her because she wasn't into their kink. FYI guys, it hurts the community as a whole when you do stuff like that. It hurts your chance of more women seeing being a pro as an interesting option, and by that, it reduces your chances of getting what ya want.

So stop being morons about it. If she says no, then respect that.

You wouldn't want her bringing some strange smelly sweaty guy in to beat you senseless because it's her kink, would you? Well, ok... maybe some of you are into that, ya never know... either way, just respect others.

Ok, with that whole rant/lecture out of the way, the goal of this series is to explore a bit of what some people think of just a one way street. There's a lot to it.Even the term for it can be written many ways that I've seen it - and the meaning can vary a bunch depending on who you ask.

I've seen it listed as strapon, strap-on, S/O - as something as simple sounding as the terms "dildo training" or "anal training" can mean wildly different limits and expectations. So if you're not clear, talk about it. Ask. Learn.

I learned the hard way personally that one Domme I played with considered dildo training to not include anal penetration at all, only oral. Not a lot of fun at the time. In fact, I was pretty bothered by the miscommunication, but I learned from it.

I promise you, not all women with a strap-on will be seeking or offering the same kind of experience. Nope. Not the same at all.

More to come ;)