FB kink

FWIW, "FB" is how I write FaceBook, mostly because I'm lazy, but also because most people know that's what FB is. I have a weird relationship with social media. A part of me loves it, but also because I have chosen to keep my kink compartmentalized away from my vanilla life. As a result, I am careful about being too open.

With that in mind, I do enjoy how playful kink can cross over into the mainstream and I figured since I don't have time for a long update,Aarkeybabble : I do love love love that tight and shiny leggings made a comeback! I'd share a couple little things about FB.

First, you never know what you'll find when you go through someone's pictures. And though I am not out and about on the prowl, it's fun to see what those who are out and about are up to - because not all FB friends are created equal ;)

Now for me, since I'm so private with my kink, there are VERY few crossover friends. Nothing personal, but I really don't want these two worlds to mix. With that in mind, I do sometimes adventure out with a sassy remark here or there - mostly to try and get a funny. Occasionally someone will post something that really piques my interest, like in this instance when my friends' wife got a hold of his account and posted something totally F/D on his profile...Aarkeybabble : The remark - she keeps me in line - really made me wonder...Though he never gave me a hint that he might be kinky, I actually wouldn't be at all surprised if that particular guyAarkeybabble : Pretty girl, corset & cigarettes - yah she can stay on my friends list! was a bedroom sub. He's just got that vibe. Either way, his wife clearly knows how to update a status!

It sure is interesting to wonder sometimes, and there's one woman (this is a shot of her with her sister, and I'm not sure which is her...) who I think is a kinkster. She has made just too many updates with a total FemDom tone; from talking about how her boyfriend is doing Aarkeybabble : If her daddy says that's a mistake, he's out of his mind!the dishes, to talking in a sexy way about hurting a boy she's hot for... it all makes me think that she's for real. No way to know for sure, and it doesn't really matter either way, but it's fun to imagine... isn't it?

BTW, if you're on FB and want a laugh, George Takei (Sulu from Star Trek) is the only person who I subscribe to. He's always posting funny pictures. Most are geek related, or gay related, but there's definitely some overlap - like this which has a bit of FD / CFNM vibe to me ;)

Anyway, I guess it's a good reminder that if you've got the fetish eye, you can find kink just about anywhere. Don't believe me? Well, ask my wife about her fantasies from catholic school about the young priest that the girls called "Father Whatawaste!"

5 comments:

Ayesha said...

Yes, one has to be very careful when it comes to single priests.

Great shirt. I love it. And for once, it tells the truth. Chances r tho, i could enhance his mistake ;)

Aarkey said...

Ma'am, I'm quite sure you're right about both your points! :)

advochasty said...

Hey thanks for the link! I totally agree that all you have to do is look and the hint of kink or the delicious aroma of fetish can be everywhere.

Hmm..."bagation". Is that like, keeping the cat in the bag? Bagation?

Aarkey said...

Advo, definitely. Kink is all around us, you just have to choose to see it. :)

Her Majesty's Plaything said...

Hey Aarkey:

Totally with you bro. I don't mix FB friends with my kinky friends. In that sense I remain totally compartmentalized. That said some of my FB friends know that I am kinky. I had a long PM conversation with a High School friend of mine only to find out that she and her husband have a basement dungeon. Apparently he makes whips.

I don't "friend" people I already know from Max Fisch or the kinky blogosphere. For one thing what's the point? I am already chatting about BDSM with these folks online. Secondly I am concerned that overlap between the two worlds may lead to a "mishap". My in-laws read my FB page for goodness sake! Never the twain shall meet! ;-)

BTW my son tells me I am terribly uncool whenever I call it "FB"!
:-P