Well, this will be my final entry of Get & Do.Not.Get. for a while. Since it seems to not be getting any responses. And don't give me that whole "I was out barbecuing with the family" holiday talk. :P
Especially because I know some of you out there think that posture collar shot is hot, even if it is just the Geisha style lipstick. Either way, I wanted to end on a note that made it clear it isn't only
smoking pictures that I get. I'm quite diverse in my fetishes actually, though I definitely have my faves - cigarettes, corsets & chastity. But that's only the beginning really.
But what is *normal* or how strongly things detract can vary. A great example is this
you tube clip where the woman to the right of the speaker (our left) just naturally lights up a cigarette. She's cute. Really cute. But her smoking manner (very very shallow drags) is distracting to me. Now, just to get really specific and annoying about it all - she's pretty, that's a plus. Her whole manner of holding her cigarette is a plus, she's smoking all white cigarettes, she doesn't apologize or look like she's feeling awkward for smoking (being comfortable is a plus to me) - but the fact is, her actual smoking manner itself is annoying. Does it ruin it? Nah. Is she's "that hot" to me? Nah. And yes, I got all that just out of the little video. Non-smoking fetishists probably just see "woman smoking" but I see all that. Of course, it cuts both ways. Most face sitting videos for me are just however many minutes of the same thing. All the subtlety is lost.
In the end, that woman smoking reminded me of two women I dated. Both actual and regular pack a day smokers. Both had great ceremony, both were attractive, but in both cases, the way they inhaled (one would fill up her cheeks when she inhaled, the other would take the same kind of really shallow drags.)
In short, I've got my preferences. And far more often then not, when someone sends a picture I feel a disconnect from it. As if I've explained it poorly, or that they don't understand me. I guess all things, I start feel a bit alone in my kink again. Like back when I was 15
and would secretly watch Tricia smoke one of her Virginia Slims cigarettes, and Sarah smoke her Marlboro Light out behind the school.
Just thinking to myself how incredibly sexy they were, and then feeling dirty, and awkward, and alone... even wrong. As if not only did no one think smoking was sexy, but that it was inappropriate to see it as such. Oh how wrong I was. I definitely think that we're at least accepted out there now with the leather, latex and foot fetishists out there - otherwise the hundred or so smoking fetish sites out there would not exist.
And I don't have anything against the slew of "sub-fetishes" that my fellow smoking fetishists have. From
closet smokers like Natalie, to the uber porn style smoking. Though I still wonder who the heck out there thinks that a woman putting a cigarette into her bum is sexy. It is something I just Do.Not.Get.
Just like filling up your gas tank in a pair of outrageous heels. It just doesn't compute. If it's your thing, hey... have fun with it. Though that kind of pasty white body and those pink heels really clash, ya know? *shrug* Taste is debatable,
intelligence - not so much.
But just like I don't get some things, I do get others. I always liked high heels, but in the last couple of years my fetish has blossomed a bit. It's gotten to the point where I'm developing a "
fetishists eye" for it. One thing I've learned to appreciate is when a woman really gets into wearing heels. Sure, just about any starlet can throw on a pair and strut out for a night - but to wear the soles of some stiletto's down in a month, well that takes an effort. And Ms. Hewitt has
done just that.
Pictures of her
on KG first showed up in that pair of attention getters in May, and then a month later there were more. And these shoes are obviously getting a workout from her. And I for one appreciate her effort. I mean, how hot is it to know that this isn't just a one night on a lark thing.
I don't know if that happened in a month, but I do know that it takes a good bit of effort to wear down the soles of heels like that. Though as they obviously are pretty effective at getting her some
attention, I'm sure that's helped encourage her to wear em out. And when a woman makes the effort to doll up a bit (or a lot) I definitely *GET* it.
So if you've got a fetish or just a "strong preference" for anything, it's A-ok with me. Please don't take it personally if I don't
get yours. I suspect you might not get mine either. It's just the way that it is.
But I'll keep on trying to explain it - since it gives me an excuse to share pictures and stories. And if you are still reading here, I suspect you don't mind too much.
