Just a blog by an alpha submissive man who wants to share what he knows (or finds interesting) with the web, hopefully in a fun and informative way.
In '05 the govt threatened the credit card companies that handled their transactions and that killed it.
My first real job out of college was pretty cool. I was the network admin and web master for Dugent publishing company. We published a slew of 2nd and 3rd tier "adult sophisticate" mags. The two biggest names we did were Gent and Nugget, and I'm sure some of the old school kinksters remember Nugget, they were really the first fetish mag that was out there. It was pretty much a real "anything goes" with it - and it was definitely worth a few nervous laughs. While it wasn't nearly as sexy a job as some of my peers thought when I first told them about it, there were definitely moments of fun, and surprising to some - I actually felt like I was making a contribution to society, if only by helping people be comfortable with their kinks.
A new blogger: fantasies of chastity asked me earlier today for some links to chastity web sites & blogs. Most chastity blogs usually they tend to fade after a few months at most... here are some that I've got book marked:
Tell me something I don't know!
Occasionally I'm reminded that not everyone who's in the scene is all that mentally well. Of course, not everyone out of the scene is that mentally well either. Fortunately it isn't like it was just a generation ago, when the mental healthy profession thought that having any interest in BDSM (or just about any alternative sexuality, including homosexuality) was caused by a childhood trauma that needed to be unearthed and resolved. 
But that definitely does not mean that everyone who's got a cuff on their wrist or a paddle in their hands is playing with a full deck. In some cases I think they're using a pinochle cards. 
Now, I am not suggesting that coconuts migrate, but my files do.
Oh, and really this is totally OT - I just think stories like this deserve more press. We're always so focused on the ugly side of things, the negativity. Those who do people wrong. Why can't we show those who do people right sometimes too - ya know?
I think this insanely awesome artwork is by: creaturesinmyhead.com, but I'm not 100% sure. :-/
One of the things that's always been important to me is my privacy, so I keep my kink world and vanilla world pretty separated. However, I just did this list of "What would your life's soundtrack be" on Facebook, and I actually found it all to be rather interesting. And in the end, much deeper than I thought - maybe too deep. I got serious and reflective and all that grown up stuff. Wondering how I'd be remembered, what was the meaning, etc, etc.
I just noticed while uploading some future images to use on ImageShack, that they'd deleted a few of my images. I won't name which ones they removed, but I don't know why they would bother with them... but they did, and that's just annoying. I put stuff up there to save on my own site's bandwidth!
Hopefully the next version will be locked in the back too ;)
But I simply HAVE to share them:
Just recently I got offended by the disrespect of endless spam. The staff for Pandora's Box, not to be confused with Pandora Radio which rocks... popped into the Max Fisch forum, and did what they do 99% of the time. They post quickly into a few forums, the same message (this week it was that they wanted someone to come clean their dungeon) and then they're off again. It's always the same kind of solicitation. "Come see Mistress Hotpants! She's got hot pants!!!" and then they're gone. No discussion, just pure solicitation & spam. And then, a few days later it's a few more of the same, but next time it's... "Mistress Tinyfeet!!! OMG!!!! She's got tiny feet!!!"
Is it that tricky to be respectful of the larger BDSM community - even if it's "just online" like this forum? How hard is it to couch their request as part of a topic - to enter into a discussion. Lots of other dommes and dungeons are smart enough to pull it off. Yes I know that 95% of the people in the business here are making commercial oriented posts. But they aren't so ugly and blatant about it. Here, let me help them. Next time they want someone to clean the dungeon post this:
Subject: Cleaning Maids
When I really tried to figure what irked me so much about it - the bottom line about what PB does now, is it's barely above vandalism. Is it really that different from someone taking a marker and writing on the bathroom wall at Paddles... "CHAT ONLINE ABOUT BDSM AT MAXFISCH.COM!" Yah, I know, the forum is just pixels - not quite the same as writing in marker. But it's not like you can't erase markers with a little work (maybe a bit more than erasing pixels... but the point is still the same.)
Maybe the Onion News is right, this poor behavior is caused by the impact that reality shows on our society. *shrug*
Obviously someone out there has a thing for attractive women with their arms bound behind them, wearing a corset and stockings. A serving tray is secured around their corsetted waist and it is then attached to a collar. Breasts and privates may be covered or exposed, and gags are also optional as well. Red and black are obviously preferred theme colors. I'm not sure if the ankle hobble chain is standard or optional, we don't get to see to the feet in one of the pictures, so your guess is as good as mine.
IRL = In Real Life. It is a term that I first heard within the smoking fetish newsgroup community of: alt.sex.fetish.smoking back in like 94 or 95. It was used to refer to actresses who not only pretended to smoke for a role in a movie, like Jennifer Love Hewitt, but IRL'rs are actresses who smoke regularly, like Lindsay Lohan or Kate Beckinsale. Ultimately though, IRL is not specific to the smoking community at all. It isn't really something that would fit specifically in "The Deviant's Dictionary" - (Thanks for the link, Mistress Miranda Rider.) Over the years, I have learned is that IRL is actually a pretty common term in online stuff - especially gaming. Along with BRB (be right back) AFK (away from keyboard) STFU NOOB! (shut the fuck up, noob!) - well that last one isn't too common.