Does this count as "genderplay" ?

Golf Mistress - sometimes benevolent

I had to take a second to talk about one of my most favorite Mistresses, the Goddess of Golf.

I wish I got to spend more time with her, but when I do, I always enjoy it. There's something very medatitive about golf for me. Even if the Golf Goddess is cruel, and I struggle - (and shoot in the 90s), which happens about half the time. On 5/10, the Goddess blessed me with my best round ever. I shot an 82, and actually I blew it on the 18th. I was a perfect par on the back 9, one bogey, one birdie... if I got a par on the 18th, I'd have shot a 79. Since I've never broken 80 (83 was my best before that round's 82) and as I had never shot par for 9 holes, I was nervous. I swung easy at my tee shot, too easy... right into the drink.

I actually didn't putt well on the front 9 either. Missed 4 or 5 putts just rolling them past the left edge of the hole. Its a new putter, I got it a few months ago and I'm still adjusting to it I guess. Either way, it was just such a blessing to go out and have a great round like that. I really needed it that day too. Badly.
And the benevolent Goddess of Golf delivered. :)

Buster Brown

As a kid, I remember my mother taking me to the Buster Brown shoe store. I never knew that Buster Brown had been a turn of the 20th century comic series. And evidently, Buster was a mischievous little fellow, who's very proper and tightly laced mother and maid had to discipline with paddle and cane pretty regularly. Hrmmmm.

Thanks to the Long Island Staylace Assoc for educating me :)

More on prostate milking

I forgot to include these two links in the entry a couple days ago. They're from two Female Dom oriented blogs which are no longer updated. I'm not sure if they're more fantasy than reality, but I thought they were worth passing along at least.

Mistress Nahemah’s Journal: Male milking is often considered one of the most powerful means to conditioning submission in a man. Here is part of an article by Mistress Nahemah describing an approach to milking a submissive male: Weekly Milking Ritual

Tease, Denial and CBT: "A few examples of the many ways in which Mistress milks me": Monthly Milkings

Simulated Childbirth for Men

Chastity with urethral inserts

I am seeing more and more of these out there lately. A friend who works at a local Fetish store that they simply can not keep them in stock as they "fly off the shelves."

But I have yet to hear from anyone who I know well in the chastity/kink communities who uses one long term about how it works for them. I have also heard some stories that scare me, and now that there are so many knock offs made in China, I can't fathom buying a cheap one. I know that Steelworx makes them, and I've seen a video of the installation. Oooof! Sure doesn't look like something for beginners!

As someone who's never had anything in my urethra, I'm particularly wary about it... but I can't deny that I'm curious. It seems that people like them for a few primary reasons. First, some like it because of the added security, since it makes pull out impossible. Some like the fact that the curve of the the insert makes any type of erection that much more impossible, so the denial is even greater. And some clearly find excitement in the discomfort of it. Though painful chastity is not new to the chastity world, not by a long shot. Lastly, some like the fact that it allows for a much more minimalist cage design, which makes cleaning, and I suspect teasing, easier.

So, anyone out there using one for long term wear? I'd like to hear from you.